Don't expect another church or friend or relative to connect meaningfully with that college kid that you want the best for. Take courage, pray for help, and connect meaningfully yourself.

Take time for more than a passing greeting. Have actual conversations. Express genuine interest in different aspects of their college life -- classes, clubs, faith, dating, etc. Try: "When I was in college, we had.... What's that like for you?" Enjoy the comparisons. Listen long and well. Ask what's in the future for them. Notice what challenges them. And if you think they can benefit from your experience responding to a particular situation, share your learning with humility.

P.S. The author claims that "the main driver of wokeness...is social media influencers and super nice co-workers and friends wearing rainbow gear." What is the source of that assessment?