I learned the commandments also, in Catholic grade school. My interpretstion of the Fouth Commandment is honor your parents, yes, by believing that they had sexual intercourse and you were born; that is the obvious truth. HOWEVER, if they were/are not good people, I feel, they do not deserve honor. Mine were abusive to all four of their children. My brother was physically beaten, oldest sister was supposed to be a second mother and became a mental and emotional mess over not being good enough, sister next to me was sent to college (which these hopeless people could not afford) using.a small stipend (erroneously called a scholarship), misbehaved, and was expelled (leaving me, the youngest, no other option than to work as a secretary instead of college (I was National Honor Society). So, in retrospect, I did not and will not ever like or love or even respect these people. They had intercourse and I was born nine months later (I do honor (know) that.