In reply to Terry Yahr.

The New Testament clearly and regularly focuses on our obligations to self-sacrifice. And the Law is prevalent even in the preaching of Jesus. He commands His followers to live in certain ways, and actually expects that we will. This is not wrong; it is actually good! As we seek to walk in His ways each day, we do so in repentance, rejoicing in His forgiveness for us for all the ways we fall short. And that becomes one of the best ways marriage is a gift, as we speak of Christ's forgiveness to one another, helping to point our spouse to God's love for them.