My guess is that The Rev. Dr. Matthew Richard married at a young age and has been blessed with spouse and children. From the time I was 18, I longed and prayed to meet a Godly man to build a marriage and family with. I didn't marry until I was almost 43 years old. Was I living immorally for those 25 years? No. By the time I did meet someone I thought was a good Christian partner and spouse, it was too late for me to have the blessing of having children. I sacrificed greatly for my husband and he instead lived selfishly and found a "newer model" while both of my parents were ending their earthly lives. I was left with neither husband, children or parents while he walked away and married someone half his age. Don't assume that every unmarried person, Christian or not, is choosing singleness because they are too selfish to commit and to sacrifice. Many of us are waiting and praying hopefully for a partner who wants to share the blessings of marriage.